Anonymous asked: Hi 18/f I like this girl she is in my university, not a lot of people know I am bi but I dunno if she is I to girls, and for that matter me. Every time I see her or am near her I get really nervous and all I want to do is talk to her but I am really awkward ad say stupid things:/
Strike up a convo :) Think about it- if someone were to walk up to you at uni, wouldn’t you be friendly? Something could start up, and you may have something in common. Be bold :) You have NOTHING to lose. Perhaps this could be the beginning of something.
I had trouble with this too- and when I started to just walk around and create small talk with people, I widened my social group, and also built a lot of self esteem.
You can do it :) Kindness if often reciprocated <3
Anonymous asked: I get the feeling my boyfriend thinks he is better than me. I feel as if he thinks hes out of my league and it does make me feel really bad about my self. I dont know what to say to him without coming across as paranoid?
This is a tough emotion to have, and I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way.
Pay attention to this emotion. You are feeling it for a reason. You may be reading the situation correctly, or you may be projecting your own emotions onto him.
I feel like you know this isn’t working out. Can you evaluate the relationship and see if it’s worth continuing? Does he complement you and what you want? Is it a respectful relationship? How do you feel about him?